SOMEDAY YOU MAY UNDERSTAND

            Someday you will understand my love <3 

            I know your life can go on without me

            That you can be happy without me

            That you can survive without me

            But even if you turn me away

            I still choose to stay with you

            Be your sweetest stranger

            forever....

CHILDREN

On Children
Kahlil Gibran

Your children are not your children.
They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself.
They come through you but not from you,
And though they are with you yet they belong not to you.

You may give them your love but not your thoughts,
For they have their own thoughts.
You may house their bodies but not their souls,
For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow,
which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.
You may strive to be like them,
but seek not to make them like you.
For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.

You are the bows from which your children
as living arrows are sent forth.
The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite,
and He bends you with His might
that His arrows may go swift and far.
Let your bending in the archer's hand be for gladness;
For even as He loves the arrow that flies,
so He loves also the bow that is stable.

DIFFER IN A HUNDRED WAYS

“Study me as much as you like, 
you will not know me,
for I differ in a hundred ways from what you see me to be. 

Put yourself behind my eyes and see me as I see myself, 
for I have chosen to dwell in a place you cannot see.”

 ~ Rumi <3 ~

MARRIAGE

On Marriage Kahlil Gibran

You were born together, and together you shall be forevermore.
You shall be together when the white wings of death scatter your days. 
Ay, you shall be together even in the silent memory of God.
But let there be spaces in your togetherness, And let the winds of the heavens dance between you. 
Love one another, but make not a bond of love: Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls. 

Fill each other's cup but drink not from one cup. 
Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one of you be alone, Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same music. 

Give your hearts, but not into each other's keeping. 
For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts.
And stand together yet not too near together: 
For the pillars of the temple stand apart, And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other's shadow.

READING

Reading opens the mind, guides one to correct morals, and sharpens one's ability to think.

Reading is the comfort for a lonely, a stimulant for the thinker, and a lamp for the traveler.

To not read makes one limited in one's speech, thinking, and personality. 

Most books contain at least some benefit, whether it is in wise sayings, interesting stories, strange experiences, or new knowledge. 

It can even be said that the benefits of reading are beyond enumeration.

And we seek refuge in Allah from one of the greatest of calamities: to have a weak determination and will power.

THE NEEDS TO COMMUNICATE

Every couple needs to argue now and then 

Just to prove that relationship

Is strong enough to survive

Long terms relationships

The ones that matter

Are all about weathering

The peaks and the valleys

But not many have a good communication skills thus the relation goes wasted.
Such a waste.

LOVE IS MAGIC

Love is Magic

that cannot be touch

nor to be prison away

You are surrounded by the spell 

that blinded your heart to see other than beauty

only the beauty


Norlidar Lidon
18.12.2013

FLY

You were born with potential

You were born with goodness and trust

You were born with ideals and dreams

You were born with greatness

You were born with wings

You are not meant for crawling, so don't

You have wings

Learn to use them and fly!

~ Rumi <3 ~

MY BEAUTY IS YOURS

"The beauty you see in me, is a reflection of you"

 ~ Rumi 

THERE IS A TIME

There is time
when I had so much to tell
then
I shut my mouth intensely
so that there is no sound
or even a rhythm
will come out
and say otherwise

There is time
when I felt that
I'm so weak
I whisper a prayer
in my heart
so HE would hear me
only him


Norlidar Lidon
16.12.2013

LOVE THAT NEVER SLEEPS

Love is that

that never sleeps

not even rests , nor stays too long

with those who do that.

Love is a Language

that cannot be heard or said. 

 ~Rumi 

Love is Magic

SPEAK OF BEAUTY

Where shall you seek beauty,

and how shall you find her 

unless she herself be your way and your guide? 

And how shall you speak of her

except she be the weaver of your speech? 

~ Khalil Gibran  ~

THOU AND I

Joyful the moment when we sat in the bower, Thou and I;

In two forms and with two faces - with one soul, Thou and I.


The colour of the garden and the song of the birds give the elixir of immortalityThe instant we come into the orchard, Thou and I.

The stars of Heaven come out to look upon us -
We shall show the moon herself to them, Thou and I.

Thou and I, with no 'Thou' or 'I', shall become one through our tasting;
Happy, safe from idle talking, Thou and I.

The spirited parrots of heaven will envy us -
Wen we shall laugh in such a way, Thou and I.

This is stranger, that Thou and I, in this corner here...
Are both in one breath here and there - Thou and I.


-- Jelaluddin Rumi

LOVING

Every step of the way

I will walk with you

and never leave you stranded

~ Rumi  ~

If loving me is what you have in mind

be ready to lead me to Jannah.

Insya Allah

BENEFIT OF DOUBT

Always assume the best of others, give them the benefit of the doubt and make excuses for them. If you do these things, then you free yourself of anxiety bitterness and frustration. It will also enhance all your relationships.

When have we assumed the best of others and benefited?

Perhaps we did not benefited straight away.

HE have a better plan for all of us.

Aamiin Allahuma Aamiin...

BE WITH ME

I'm your lover
Come to my side
I will open
the gate to your love

Come settle with me
Let us be neighbors
to the stars

You have been hiding so long
aimlessly drifting
in the sea of my love

Even so
you have always been
connected to me
Concealed, revealed
in the known
in the unmanifest
I am life itself

You have been a prisoner
of a little pond
I am the ocean
an its turbulent flood
Come merge with me
Leave this world of ignorance

Be with me
I will open
the gate to your love

 ~Rumi 

SOMEDAY

Someday our souls will be one
and
our union will be forever.

I know that everything I give you comes back to me.

So I give you my life, hoping that you will come back to me.
~ Rumi <3 ~


لا اِلهَ اِلَّا اللّهُ لا اِلهَ اِلَّا اللّهُ

PUMPKIN - FAVORITE FOOD OF RASULULLAH SAW

However, No harm can be done because it is the cheapest Vegetable eaten all around the world

 

 
 A secret revealed ...

 Some years ago, a former professor of mine showed me a blood test, what I saw impressed me.
The five key blood parameters, ie urea, cholesterol, blood glucose, lipids and triglycerides had values which far exceeded permitted levels.
Commented that the person with those indices should already be dead or, if alive, this would be just out of stubbornness.

The teacher then showed the name of the patient who until then had been hidden by his hand. The patient was himself!

 I was dumbfounded! And I said: "But how? And what did you do?".
With a smile he introduced me to another sheet analysis, saying: "Now, look at this, compare the values of the parameters and see the dates."
That's what I did. The parameter values were clearly within the recommended range, the blood was perfect, flawless, but the surprise increased when I looked dates, the difference was only a month (between the two analysis of the same person)!

 I asked: "How could it? This is literally a miracle!"
Calmly, he replied that the miracle was due to his doctor, who suggested treatment obtained from another doctor friend. This treatment has been used by myself, several times, with impressive results.
Approximately once a year, do analysis of my blood, and if either is present tendency to breakdown, return immediately to repeat this process. I suggest that you try.

Here's the SECRET: weekly for 4 weeks, buy at the fair or supermarket, pumpkin pieces. Should not be the pumpkin squash and pumpkin rather large, which is usually used to make candy. Daily, peel 100 grams of pumpkin, place the pieces in a blender (raw), along with water (WATER ONLY!), And mix well, making a vitamin pumpkin with water.
Take this vitamin fasting, 15-20 minutes before breakfast (breakfast / breakfast). Do this for a month, every time your blood needs to be corrected.
Can control the outcome, making analysis before and after treatment with other pumpkin. According to the doctor, there is no contraindication, because it is just a natural vegetable and water (do not use sugar!).

 The teacher, excellent chemical engineer, studied the pumpkin to know which of the active ingredients it contains and concluded, at least partially, that it is present in a solvent of low molecular weight cholesterol: cholesterol more harmful and dangerous - LDL.
During the first week, urine has a large amount of LDL (low molecular weight), which results in cleaning of arteries, including the brain, thereby increasing the person's memory ..

PUMPKIN ... Do not make it a secret ... 

YOU LOVE SOMEONE

If you love someone because you think that he/she is really gorgeous – Then it’s not love, it’s “infatuation”

If you love someone because you think that you shouldn’t leave him/her because others think that you shouldn’t… - Then it’s not love, it’s “compromise”

If you love someone because you think that you cannot live without his/her touch… - Then it’s not love, it’s “lust”

If you love someone because you have dreamt of him/her… - Then it’s not love, it’s “inferiority complex”

If you love someone because you think that you can’t leave him/her thinking that it would hurt his/her feeling… - Then it’s not love, it’s “charity”

If you love someone because you share everything with him/her… - Then it’s not love, it’s “friendship”

If you feel the pain of the other person more than him/her even when he/she is stable and you cry for him/her… - That’s LOVE

If you get attracted to the people but stay with him/her without regrets… - That’s LOVE

If you let him/her go knowing that he/she has to go but he/she doesn't want to… - That’s LOVE

You love that person with full of your heart.. and you will cry in a happy moment hoping you can share your happiness with her/him

You love that person so much that you may want to keep all your sadness quietly deep inside your heart


The sweetest love is when you think of the person and the memory of it make you smile and another time it makes you cry as well

PETALS OF ROSE

A good Muslimah is like petals of rose <3

even though the flowers already turn to small pieces, torn or even faded in colors but the culprit who crush, smash or whatever we may want to call it, the petals still given away the fragrant...

even after it dried up..

MESSAGE FROM HEAVEN

Location : Office

Time : 2 p.m. (After zuhur)


The office assistant is busy drafting letter to some of the clients.

Then the boss (not yet a Muslim) came out from the office, walking slowly to her work place.

With a calm voice the boss start the conversation as he stopped in front of her desk.


Boss :  There is a message from heaven..

The staff was a bit bewildered "hmm a message dari syurga.." she said to herself. Her boss noticed her expression.


Boss : "Mr Heaven Chia, the new real estate agent."


Staff : "Ohhh I was still thinking what message from heaven". She said that with a big smile..


Boss : "Perhaps next time, we might have a lady real estate agent by a name of "paradise".


Boss : Yes, I received a message from Heaven about the land in Johor.




* If you knew someone quite long, roughly you would knew and understood their track of mind even though you might have some differences. In this short story it is different religion... :-)

LOVE - KHALIL GIBRAN

Love is

Love has no other desire but to fulfill itself.

But if you love and must needs have desires, let these be your desires

To melt and be like a running brook that sings its melody to the night

To know the pain of too much tenderness

To be wounded by your own understanding of love;

And to bleed willingly and joyfully.

To wake at dawn with a winged heart and give thanks for another day of loving;

To rest at the noon hour and meditate love's ecstasy;

To return home at eventide with gratitude;

And then to sleep with a prayer for the beloved in your heart and a song of praise upon your lips.

~KHALIL GIBRAN~

RIVER OF LOVE 1

If you are seeking closeness to the Beloved,
love everyone.

whether in their presence or absence,
see only their good.

if you want to be as clear and refreshing as
the breath of the morning breeze,

like the sun have nothing but warmth and light
for everyone.



~Shaikh Abu-Said Abil-Khair~

MIRROR OF MY SOUL

The mirror of my soul is your face,

MY LOVE; You reflect my perfect being.

~Rumi <3 ~

LOVELY WORDS

All the precious words

you and I have exchanged

have found their way

into the heart of the universe

one day they'll pour on us

like whispering rain

helping us arise

from our roots again

~ Rumi ~

WHAT DO YOU WANT TO PUT IN YOUR MIND

“You can live a life of fear or live a life of love. You have the choice! But I can tell you that if you choose to see a world full of love, your body will respond by growing in health. If you choose to believe that you live in a dark world full of fear, your body’s health will be compromised as you physiologically close yourself down in a protection response.” 

— Dr. Bruce Lipton 

O LOVERS

WE ARE ALL THE SAME

We are all the same, 

All the same,

Longing to find our way back;

Back to the One, 

back to the only One...

~ Rumi  ~

RUNNING TO THE END

“I have come running to the end of Your street,

Tears are washing my face,

What else do I seek other than meeting You? 

I repeat Your name as I surrender my soul to You.” 

- Hazrat Nizamuddin Awliya -

10 GOOD WAYS TO LOVE YOUR WIFE

♥♥ 10 Ways To Love Your Wife ♥♥

1. Make her feel secure; QUIT BEING AGGRESSIVE.

2. When you go home say “Assalamualaikum.” (Greetings) It kicks the shaytan out of your home!

3. Prophet Muhammad (Sallal lahu alaihi Wasallam) described the wife as a fragile vessel and said to take care of this vessel that's fragile. Remember that there is goodness in this vessel so treat it gently.

4. When you advise her, do so in privacy, in a peaceful environment. NOT IN PUBLIC as its a type of slandering.

5. Be generous to your wife —it keeps her LOVED

6. Move and let her have your seat. It will warm her heart.

7. AVOID ANGER. HOW? Keep your wuduk at all times. Prophet Sallal lahu alaihi Wasallam said if you are angry, sit down, if you're sitting, then lie down. Follow the sunnah!

8. Look good and smell great for your wife. IT keeps the LOVE!

9. Don't be rigid. It will break you. Prophet Mohammed (May the blessings and the peace of Allah be upon him) said “I am the best amongst you and I am the best to my wife.” Being rigid and harsh will not bring you close to Allah and neither does it makes you more of a man.

10. Listen to your wife —BE a GOOD LISTENER.

LOVE

♡~√v”^√~√v^√v’^~√♡

Whatever Happens ,

Just Keep Smiling and 

Lose Yourself In 

♡ LOVE.

~ Rumi ~

YOU ARE IN EVERY BREATH

in every breath

if you're the center

of your own desires

you'll lose the grace

of your beloved

but if in every breath

you blow away

your self claim

the ecstasy of love

will soon arrive

~ Rumi <3 

INSIDE YOU

There is a morning inside you

waiting to burst open into light.

~ Rumi  ~

READY TO FLY

Ready to fly...

fly beyond imagination...

Fly...

fly to the open sky

fly with the small wing

don't set your limit

fly...

fly my little sweet

fly across the blue ocean...

fly to the sacred place

where there's no burden

where there's no worries

fly

fly a little more

where there's no pain at all

you are just an angel there..

Be there with the one you loved

you loved most

WHEREVER YOU ARE

Wherever you are

& Whatever you do,

 Be in Love  

~ Rumi  ~

A SOUL MOON

I will whisper secrets in your ear

just nod yes and be silent. 

A soul moon 

appeared in the path of my heart. 

How precious is this journey. 

~ Rumi <3 ~

LIKE THE MOON

Your body is away from me

But there is a window open

from my heart to yours.

From this window, like the moon

I keep sending news secretly.

~ Rumi <3 ~

HANGING ON YOUR FAITH

When we feel that life is so challenging...
Keep hanging there, keep praying & doa with full intense of your heart...
Allah is always there listening...

ALLAH KNOWS WHAT IS BEST FOR HIS SERVANT

NOBODY HAS THE RIGHT TO CONDEMN U

STRONG FAITH

The Rose does not care...

if someone calls it a thorn,

or a jasmine.

~ Rumi  ~

BE SILENT!!

Be silent!

HE who knows all secret...

is present. 

~ Rumi  ~

SUFFERING IS A GIFT

Suffering is a Gift, 

in it is His 

hidden Mercy

~ Rumi  ~ 

YOU HARVEST WHAT YOU SOW

Every tree,

every growing thing as it grows,

says this truth,

you harvest what you sow

~ Rumi  ~

I WILL BE WAITING HERE

I will be waiting here...

For your silence to break

For your soul to shake

For your love to wake

~ Rumi  ~

INSTALLING LOVE

A CONVERSATION BETWEEN A CUSTOMER AND A TECH SUPPORT:

TECH SUPPORT: YES, ... HOW CAN I HELP YOU?

CUSTOMER: Well, after much consideration, I've decided to INSTALL LOVE. Can you guide me through the process?

TECH SUPPORT: YES.. .. I CAN HELP YOU... ARE YOU READY TO PROCEED?

CUSTOMER: Well, I'm not very technical, but I think I'm ready... What do I do first?

TECH SUPPORT: THE FIRST STEP IS TO OPEN YOUR HEART... HAVE YOU LOCATED YOUR HEART?

CUSTOMER: Yes, but there are several OTHER PROGRAMS RUNNING NOW... Is it okay to install Love while they are running?...

TECH SUPPORT: WHAT PROGRAMS ARE RUNNING ?...

CUSTOMER: Let's see, I have PAST HURT, LOW SELF-ESTEEM, GRUDGE AND RESENTMENT, running right now....

TECH SUPPORT: NO PROBLEM, LOVE WILL GRADUALLY ERASE PAST HURT FROM YOUR CURRENT OPERATING SYSTEM... It may remain in your permanent memory, but it will no longer disrupt other programs... LOVE WILL EVENTUALLY OVERRIDE LOW SELF-ESTEEM WITH A MODULE OF ITS OWN CALLED HIGH SELF-ESTEEM... However, you have to COMPLETELY TURN OFF GRUDGE AND RESENTMENT... THOSE PROGRAMS PREVENT LOVE FROM BEING PROPERLY INSTALLED.... Can you turn those off ?...

CUSTOMER: I don't know how to turn them off... Can you tell me how? ...

TECH SUPPORT: WITH PLEASURE... IT’S QUITE SIMPLE.... GO TO YOUR START MENU AND INVOKE FORGIVENESS... Do this as many times as necessary, UNTIL GRUDGE AND RESENTMENT HAVE BEEN COMPLETELY ERASED....

CUSTOMER: Okay, done! Love has started installing itself... Is that normal?

TECH SUPPORT: YES, BUT REMEMBER THAT YOU HAVE ONLY THE BASE PROGRAM... YOU NEED TO BEGIN CONNECTING TO OTHER HEARTS IN ORDER TO GET THE UPGRADES....

CUSTOMER: Oops! I have an error message already. It says, "Error - Program not run on external components." What should I do? ....

TECH SUPPORT: DON'T WORRY... It means that the LOVE PROGRAM is set up to run on internal hearts, but has not yet been run on your heart.... IN NON-TECHNICAL TERMS, it simply means YOU HAVE TO LOVE YOURSELF, BEFORE YOU CAN LOVE OTHERS....

CUSTOMER: So, what should I do? ...

TECH SUPPORT: PULL DOWN SELF-ACCEPTANCE; then click on the following files: FORGIVE-SELF; REALIZE YOUR WORTH; And acknowledge your limitations...

CUSTOMER: Okay, done....

TECH SUPPORT: NOW, COPY THEM TO THE "MY HEART" DIRECTORY... THE SYSTEM WILL OVERWRITE ANY CONFLICTING FILES AND BEGIN PATCHING FAULTY PROGRAMMING... ALSO, YOU NEED TO DELETE VERBOSE SELF-CRITICISM FROM ALL DIRECTORIES, AND EMPTY YOUR RECYCLE BIN, TO MAKE SURE IT IS COMPLETELY GONE AND NEVER COMES BACK....

CUSTOMER: Got it.... Hey! My heart is filling up with new files... SMILE IS PLAYING ON MY MONITOR and Peace and Contentment are copying themselves all over My Heart... Is this normal?...

TECH SUPPORT: SOMETIMES... For others it takes awhile, but eventually everything gets it at the proper time... SO LOVE IS INSTALLED AND RUNNING... One more thing before we hang up.... LOVE IS FREEWARE.... Be sure to give it and its various modules to everyone you meet.... THEY WILL IN TURN SHARE IT WITH OTHERS and return some cool modules back to you...

CUSTOMER: Thank you...